NMCADV Speaking Of Podcast
SPEAKING OF is a podcast for people who are directly and indirectly involved in the movement to end domestic violence, intimate partner violence, and in particular; men’s violence against women.
Join David Garvin, NMCADV's Director of Abuse Intervention and Systems Response to focus both on the rich history of battering and abuse intervention work as well as the current innovations that are taking place now.
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Ep. 32 - Speaking Of: Paul Bukovec
Paul Bukovec, LSW, was the Director of Menergy, a counseling center for men which he founded in 1994. In this capacity he served as chief clinician for a practice that specialized in the treatment of perpetrators of domestic abuse. As head of this treatment program for wife and partner abusers, he was responsible for programming, clinical supervision and the coordination of all direct service, including individual and group evaluation and treatment for offenders, and training and outreach presentations on domestic violence in a wide variety of settings. He served as a consultant and trainer for local and state wide domestic violence agencies and coalitions. To the service community-at-large, Mr. Bukovec served as a case consultant for domestic violence cases involving victims and perpetrators. He spoke at many national and regional professional conferences and was featured as a guest on local television and radio on numerous occasions. He was featured with his program on the ABC-TV news show "20/20," December 1987.
In 1984, Mr. Bukovec became the founder and director of Project RAP for Family Service of Philadelphia, designing the first abuser treatment program in the Philadelphia area. During his ten year tenure, Bukovec organized and chaired The Brown Bag Forum, a monthly professional training series featuring local experts speaking on a variety of subjects relating to family violence, which served hundreds of clinicians locally. In 1988, Mr. Bukovec coordinated and chaired a major two-day national conference: Violence in the Family, hosting over 400 professionals from around the U.S.
An active member of the state-wide Batterers Intervention Network, Mr. Bukovec was a co-author of Standards for Batterers Programs promulgated by the Pennsylvania Coalition Against Domestic Violence. He also wrote a monograph, Psychotherapy for The Male Batterer published in The Renfrew Perspective.
Mr. Bukovec was a full time assistant professor for four and one-half years in the Child Care Department of Temple University, and a part time instructor for Community College of Philadelphia for several years. He has also been a field supervisor for graduate social work students from Smith College, Bryn Mawr School of Social Work and Social Research, the University of Pennsylvania, Allegheny University, Rutgers University, and Temple University. He guest lectured at most of the local colleges and graduate clinical programs.
Paul retired in December of 2013. He now spends his time cooking, writing, camping and hanging out with family.
Crusty Bits of Scrapple: Sketches, Scuffles and Tough Tales from Philly by Paul Bukovec
This is a collection of character sketches, vignettes and stories from the streets and neighborhoods of Philadelphia. Told from a wryly askance, ground level perspective, this anthology presents portrayals of gritty, everyday people. Some are quirky. Some obtuse. Some resistant. Some resilient. All real people. All scuffling to get by with a hard way to go.
These are narratives of relationship clashes, urban life struggles, hardscrabble conflicts and vivid personalities retold by a man who heard it all firsthand. The author, Paul Bukovec, spent forty-five years as a psychotherapist evaluating and treating a wide spectrum of the population in the City of Brotherly Love. He worked at the local state mental hospital, a community mental health center, and as lead clinician/director for the city's first Batterers' Intervention Program. He engaged with folks at all levels of distress and conflict: evaluated court referrals, diagnosed cases at every level of disorder, and spoke intimately with thousands from all walks of life.
Bukovec describes the poems in this volume as mosaics. He has taken fragments from hundreds of personalities and a myriad of stories he listened to over the years and pieced together composites that tell tales about real people you could encounter any day on Philly's always sunny streets.

Episode 44: David Houesal (Coming 2-3-2026!)

Episode 43: Fernando Mederos (coming 1-20-2026!)

Episode 42: Tony Lapp (coming 1-6-2026!)

Episode 41: Jeremy NeVilles-Sorell (coming 12-16-2025!)
Episode 40: Barbara Hart
Episode 39: Jackson Katz

Episode 38: Nicholas Davis (coming 11-18-2025!)

Episode 37: Shon Hart (coming 11-4-2025!)

Episode 38: JAC Patrissi (coming 10-21-2025!)

Episode 35: Antonia Drew Norton (coming 10-7-2025!)

Episode 34: Dominique with Special Guest Dr. Oliver Williams (coming 9-16-2025!)

Episode 33: Lundy Bancroft (coming 9-2-2025!)
Episode 32: Paul Bukovec
Episode 31: Jerry Tello
Episode 30: Rhea Almeida
Episode 29: Fr. Chuck Dahm
Episode 28: Eric Mankowski
Episode 27: Dan Saunders
Episode 26: Trish Singh
Episode 25: Etiony Aldarondo
Episode 24: Rich Tolman
Episode 23: Jeff Edleson
Episode 22: Bea Coté
Episode 21: Scott Miller
Episode 20: Oliver Williams
Episode 19: Craig Norberg-Bohm
Episode 18: Penelope Morrison
Episode 17: Ed Gondolf
Episode 16: Lisa Nitsch
Episode 15: Michael Paymar
Episode 14: Yesinia Delgado
Episode 13: Paul Kivel
Episode 12: Aaron Newman
Episode 11: Men Stopping Violence
Episode 10: Dr. Lisa Young Larance
Episode 9: Melissa Scaia
Episode 8: Eric Threlkeld
Episode 7: Angela Phillips
Episode 6: David Mandel
Episode 5: David Weaver
Episode 4: Johnnie Trujillo
Episode 3: Darald Hanusa
Episode 2: Alyce LaViolette
Episode 1: David Adams
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